The Menace of Unguarded Political Rhetoric; Lessons from Sen. Adams Oshiomhole's Remarks on Mrs. Betsy Obaseki

 By Ishola Ayodele

*Background*

Political rhetoric plays a significant role in shaping public opinion, reinforcing political agendas, and mobilizing supporters. However, when left unchecked, reckless statements can cause harm to personal reputations, deepen divisions, and undermine the integrity of political discourse. This case study explores a recent incident involving Senator Adams Oshiomhole, a former governor of Edo State, and his controversial remarks about Mrs. Betsy Obaseki, the wife of the current governor of Edo, Godwin Obaseki.

 

*The Incident*

On September 2, 2024 at a Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) campaign event, Mrs. Betsy Obaseki introduced the wife of PDP’s gubernatorial candidate, Ifeyinwa Ighodalo, and remarked that she was the only candidate's spouse present in the election. This statement was seen as a critique of candidates without visible family support.

 

In retaliation, Oshiomhole, during an interview, criticized Mrs. Obaseki, saying, "Here is a woman who has no child. Between them, they are childless and have not adopted." This statement quickly escalated the political battle into a personal and emotional controversy, with the rhetoric crossing from policy issues to deeply personal matters.

 

*Public Reaction*

The public backlash to Oshiomhole’s remarks was swift and overwhelmingly negative, with advocacy groups, political commentators, and social media users condemning his comments as insensitive and uncalled for.

 

Women for Equality and Empowerment (WEE) labeled the remarks "disgraceful" and harmful to the advancement of gender equality in Nigeria. The group called for immediate action from both the Nigerian Senate and Oshiomhole's political party, the ‘All Progressive Congress (APC)’. _*"It is appalling for a public figure of Senator Oshiomhole's stature to engage in such disparaging comments," said Dr. Ngozi Afolabi, Chairperson of WEE. "His statements are a setback for the progress we've made in promoting gender respect and equality in Nigeria."*_

 

Social media was flooded with criticism, as users expressed outrage over Oshiomhole’s attack. *“Oshiomhole should be ashamed. This is gutter politics at its worst, and it shows a total lack of respect for women everywhere” *                                                                                             (@NaijaProgressive).

 

 *“This isn’t just about Obaseki’s wife—it’s about setting a dangerous precedent for what’s acceptable in political discourse. This kind of rhetoric has no place in modern politics.”*                                                    @OlamideReads

 

Others pointed out the pettiness of such personal attacks.,

 @SeunSpeaks, remarked, *"It’s sad to see a political leader stoop so low. Criticize policies, not families. Oshiomhole needs to remember that he's representing a nation, not engaging in playground insults."*

Similarly, @MisterTruth added, *“Politicians like Oshiomhole are the reason we can’t have mature political debates in Nigeria. This is embarrassing for Edo and for the country as a whole.”*

 

The public outrage sparked a larger discussion about the decline of civility in Nigerian politics, with many urging that such reckless rhetoric should face serious consequences.

 

*Analysis of the Role of PR*

Political rhetoric, when left unchecked, can have long-lasting effects on the credibility of public figures. This case underscores the need for proactive PR management and crisis communication strategies to contain the damage caused by unguarded statements. Key lessons from this incident include:

 

1.     The Need for Message Control: Political figures must ensure that their rhetoric is focused on issues rather than personal attacks. In this case, Oshiomhole’s team could have anticipated the backlash and advised him to focus on policy criticisms rather than personal matters.

 

2.     Crisis Communication Response: Once the controversy erupted, Oshiomhole's team failed to effectively manage the fallout. A prompt apology or clarification could have mitigated the damage, but the delay in addressing the issue only deepened the outrage.

 

3.     Empathy as a Communication Strategy: The opposition's response capitalized on the incident by highlighting the need for empathy in political discourse. This demonstrates the importance of framing responses in a way that resonates with the values of the public, especially on sensitive issues like childlessness.

 

4.     Reinforcing Gender Equality and Respect: The backlash also emphasized the role of political rhetoric in reinforcing or undermining social values such as gender equality and respect. The demand for sanctions from WEE highlights the growing expectation that political leaders should embody and promote respect for all individuals, irrespective of their personal circumstances.

 

CONCLUSION

In the words of an African proverb, "The axe forgets, but the tree remembers." While careless rhetoric may fade from the speaker’s memory, its sting lingers in the hearts of those it targets. Oshiomhole’s remarks about Mrs. Betsy Obaseki serve as a stark reminder that political discourse should never cross the line into personal denigration. In a society already grappling with deep-seated issues of inequality and divisiveness, leaders bear the responsibility of shaping narratives that unite rather than tear apart.

Statistics reveal that nearly 40% of Nigerians are active social media users, a powerful indicator of the reach and impact of online discourse. In this hyper-connected world, unguarded statements can spread like wildfire, making it all the more crucial for public figures to think before they speak. The fallout from Oshiomhole’s comments highlights the delicate balance between freedom of speech and the responsibility that comes with leadership. Political leaders must recognize that words have power not just to sway votes but to wound, to heal, or to incite.

Much like the hunter who sets a trap in haste, Oshiomhole’s ill-considered words ensnared him in a controversy that could have been easily avoided. The lessons are clear: political rhetoric must be wielded like a double-edged sword sharp, precise, but always with a sense of caution and respect. For when leaders choose words that degrade rather than elevate, they may find themselves, as another African proverb warns, "digging a pit only to fall into it themselves."

Let this incident serve as a call to action for all leaders—whether in Nigeria or across the globe—to prioritize respect, empathy, and unity in their communication. In a world where words echo far beyond the moment, the legacy of a leader is not only in what they achieve but also in how they speak.

 Ishola, N. Ayodele is a distinguished and multiple award-winning strategic communication expert who specializes in ‘Message Engineering’. He helps Organizations, Brands and Leaders Communicate in a way that yields the desired outcome. He is the author of the seminal work, 'PR Case Studies; Mastering the Trade,' and Dean, the School of Impactful Communication (TSIC). He can be reached via ishopr2015@gmail.com or 08077932282